For a while now, I have been
mulling over the way that we, as a culture, want to label everything and
everyone. I'm not just talking about the labels we put on people for
their choices or politics but also about a diagnosis or condition that makes people
different for some reason or another. Are you defined by that diagnosis
or your past experiences? Even though this practice has long been
common, it has agitated me for some time. Why do we have to do
that?! I’ve come to believe that the Enemy loves to use
labels. Why? I believe it’s because he loves to limit us or distract
us from fully realizing our God-given identity.
Or does it provide us an excuse from the responsibility of being accountable or being a good steward of what God has entrusted us with? Let's dig in: Does it give the enemy a way to condemn us for not measuring up? We find ourselves saying: “well, this is just the way I am” or “I’m not good enough” or “that person is an idiot” or any other similar claim. As we are “owning” or "adopting" these labels, let’s also remember Romans 8:1-2. “There is therefore no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made us free from the law of sin and death.” Also remember Psalm 139:14: "I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.”
So now it’s time to truly
evaluate the effect of this “labeling” on our lives. Does this
practice grant us freedom or does it imprison us? I do believe
sometimes the label can allow us to breathe a sigh of relief because we have an
“answer” for how we are or what’s wrong…or right… with us and others.
But does this “knowledge” separate us from God and others? Can
it help us connect to God and others?
I believe we can allow this “knowledge” to lead us to healing or isolation. This is key: which do we seek?
Personally, I do not believe
isolation is profitable in any true sense of our being. I believe
God created us for community and connection not separation. (Genesis
2:18 “And the Lord God said, It is not good that man should be
alone…”) Seeking healing may be the more painful path
(seemingly). However, it leads us to connect with God and
others. God uses community to help us navigate the journey to
wholeness. That's another whole subject in itself.
My conclusion: Labels limit
us in ways that God does not and never intends for us. Allow God to
set your boundaries—to define who you are in Him.
Isaiah 55:8-9 “My thoughts
are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways” says the
Lord. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth so are My ways
higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts.”
Share your thoughts on this subject. I'd love to hear from you!
May the Lord bless you and keep you in His arms!

